If there is a problem in your life then there are 3 solutions for every problem.
1. Accept it
The first step is to accept it. When we accept a problem that yes it exists in my life. This problem is in my life. So our view of it changes the way we deal with it. Many people do not even accept that there is a problem in their life. They keep looking away from their problems all their lives. They do not accept the problems at all and keep giving themselves false consolations. That there is no problem in their life.
Friends, sometimes what we think is a problem is the bitter truth of our lives. Which we just have to accept. If your height is short then accept it, same as if you’re complexion is dull, just accept it. So the problem will be over. Otherwise all your life you will keep trying to make the colour fair. You will do make-up, apply creams, and give yourself false consolations.
Friends, always remember that as soon as you accept a problem, the way you look at it will change.
2. Change it
The second solution is if you can’t accept the problem then change it. If you were from a middle middle-class family. Your father was born in a middle-class family and remained in the middle class and if you accept the fact that you will remain in the middle class for the rest of your life, then your life will continue. But if you can’t accept that you are poor, you wish you were born rich. You also have a lot of money, a car, a luxury house etc. So, if you are not satisfied with your life then change your life.
The problem is that we live in a dream world. We don’t even accept things and make no effort to change them. We want to eat the fruit but do not want to cultivate it. We want to make good money but we don’t want to work for it. We must remember the words of Bill Gates.
If you are born in a poor home, it is not your fault. But if you die poor, it is your fault.
3. Stop worrying about it
Now the thing is if you want to change the problem then you want to change the situation. But if the problem is bigger than your height. You can’t change it no matter how hard you try.
Then you stop worrying about it. Don’t focus on that. You will only ruin your peace. If you were born in a poor house and you keep thinking that the other people are happy and are living good and college. That is why he is successful today. Same as if you were born in a rich family, your life would be different today.
Friends, your thinking will give you nothing but sorrow and regret. You can’t change that now. So it is better to leave it and move on. Think new and learn something new every day in life.
